Bed-wetting isn't uncommon

A delicate topic to talk about: bed-wetting. We have received a number of e-mails from parents concerned about this issue.

Did you know that at age seven, one in ten children still wets the bed at least once a week? In fact, millions of kids well into their teenage years wet the bed.

Experts say it's pretty common. That's because when our kids are mastering potty training during the day, they're learning a new skill. We practice that and help them figure it all out.

But, night-time dryness is totally different. Doctors say it's a subconscious skill that really can't be taught or practiced. Many experts agree that wetting the bed isn't something that discipline, practice or rewards will help overcome. And, understanding it many times depends on how long it's been going on.

Tabitha Olzinski is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and she specializes in child development.

She says, "if it's a new situation, my first thought would be to go to a doctor and make sure you don't have a bladder infection. Also, make sure there's nothing else going on, like some anxiety. Did a new situation just happen? Did they just move? Did they just start a new school? Because those things can also change, as well."

Doctors say medical conditions can contribute to bed-wetting. But, many children who wet the bed don't have any sort of medical issue.

Bed-wetting often runs in the family. And, many children simply grow out of it.

You can help, by limiting liquids before bedtime. And, making sure your kids make one-final trip to the bathroom before climbing into bed. Some parents try to wake their kids during the night for a bathroom visit.

But, most of all, you can help by providing calm reassurance that everything's OK. Make sure your little ones know that you're not mad at them because wetting the bed can be embarrassing for kids.

Experts say there are times when you need to call the doctor in reference to bed-wetting, including bed-wetting that begins abruptly or is accompanied by other symptoms can be a sign of another medical condition. The doctor may check for signs of a urinary tract infection (uti), constipation, bladder problems, diabetes, or severe stress.

Other times to call the doctor include if your child

* suddenly starts wetting the bed after being consistently dry for at least 6 months,
* begins to wet his or her pants during the day,
* starts misbehaving at school or at home,
* complains of a burning sensation or pain when urinating,
* has to urinate frequently,
* is drinking or eating much more than usual,
* has swelling of the feet or ankles.

For more information, click here (www.mayoclinic.com/health/bed-wetting/DS00611).